Grandma once told me :
A woman is a failure not only when it comes to career.
But a true failure when it comes to,
- Unable to keep a family.
- Unable to give warmth to the woman's loves one.
- Unable to nurture her kids well for example to forgive and forget. To love others unconditionally and never expect anything in return when u're giving something out of kindess.
She told me that woman has the power to keep a family when woman dont :
Quarrel at every little single thing.
Nags at the family members all time
Will bear all the things that's going against her.
Bears all the tempers that everyone throws at her
Grandma, she herself went through so much more than me for what a woman should be. I'm really proud of her as she kept this family healthy and harmony. Where she bears all the things that's beyond her reach and limits, that's how she makes this family alive.
What about me? I can't even save a relationship that i dearly love for two and a half years with all my love, yet this man has been pushing me away all the times.
I'm the real failure in fact. The woman that has the real failure, not in career wise.
